Sexual Harassment: No Means No

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by "Michelle"

 

Two years ago, I was working as a legal assistant in a law firm when I became a victim of sexual harassment by one of the attorneys. Initially, I tried to address the issue by repeatedly asking him to stop crossing the line, but unfortunately, he wouldn't listen. The situation escalated to the point where he kissed me and groped me.

 

Thankfully, throughout this ordeal, I saved his text messages, where he wrote what he was feeling and what he did. With this evidence, I sought justice, though sadly, I believe no one would have listened if I didn't have the texts. The law firm ended up settling the case through mediation, validating my claims.

 

This experience ignited a fire in me to protect and support other women who have endured similar experiences. I recently made the life-changing decision to enroll in law school (with a nice scholarship). My goal is to become a lawyer and advocate for victims of sexual harassment.

 

I want every woman and man out there to know that your voice matters and that no means no!

 

 

Age Discrimination? Not Me

 

by "Mike"

 

I have been teaching for over thirty-seven years now. Teaching is not simply a job to me, it's my passion, my calling. I've been facing some challenges. The school district wants me to retire because of my age. They even tried to persuade me to become an administrator instead of being in the classroom with the kids. But let me tell you something, my heart belongs with the children. Being in the classroom, watching their faces light up when they grasp a new concept, witnessing the spark of curiosity and desire to learn—that is the reason why I became a teacher all those years ago. And that is why I am not ready to let go just yet. I know there is a lot of pressure on me to step aside and let the next generation of teachers take over. But age should never be a determining factor in one's ability to teach and inspire young minds. Experience and love for the job are what truly matter. So, my friends, I will continue doing what I love, teaching, until the day I am no longer able to. I want to thank all of you—my colleagues, parents, and most importantly, my incredible students—for your support and understanding. Together, we will make a lasting impact on these children's lives.

 

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Child Sexual Abuse and the Child Victims Act in New York

 

by "Ted"

 

A priest, who ought to have been a representation of safety and trust, inflicted unspeakable pain on me as a child. The darkness of that experience loomed over me for what felt like forever until I found the courage to confront it head-on.

 

Fortunately, the Child Victims Act in New York provided me with a means to hold him accountable for the horrific sexual actions committed against me. Through the legal process, I fought relentlessly for justice. It was a journey marked by emotional turmoil, but my determination ultimately prevailed. After years of painfully navigating through the legal channels with three different attorneys, I finally achieved a resolution that offered some semblance of solace. The settlement I received was not merely a financial victory; rather, it symbolized a personal triumph, propelling me toward healing and closure.

 

Today, I am a college linguistics professor. I dedicate my life to imparting knowledge and sharing my experiences with young minds. It serves as a powerful testimony to the strength of the human spirit and its remarkable ability to transcend even the darkest of memories. To anyone who has suffered pain and anguish, I want you to know that you are not alone. There is hope, there is support, and it is never too late to seek justice and reclaim your life. And the Child Victims Act enabled me to do just that. Let's inspire change and create a world where every victim's voice is heard and justice is served.

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From Silence to Speaking Out: A Survivor of Date Rape

 

by "Jenny"

 

I want to share my story with you to help others out there. When I was in college, something terrible happened to me - I was a victim of date rape. This means someone I trusted took advantage of me after I clearly said ... NO!!!

 

At first, I didn't know what to do or who to talk to. But then I found a therapist who helped me through this tough time. She listened to me and supported me. Talking about what happened made me realize that it wasn't my fault. I decided to tell my family about it, too. They were shocked and upset but stood by my side. With their love and support, I decided to press charges against the guy who hurt me. Thankfully, there was strong evidence against him, so he eventually admitted his crime. He had to face the consequences legally and financially. It was tough, but it felt empowering to hold him accountable.

 

Today, I speak to college freshmen about date rape. I want to raise awareness and help others understand what it means and how to prevent it. I tell them that consent is essential, and no one has the right to violate their boundaries. Remember, you're never alone if something like this happens to you. Reach out to someone you trust, like a therapist, a friend, or a family member. Let's stand together and change the narrative around date rape, one conversation at a time. Stay strong!​